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There are, unfortunately,
many issues around sexual desire that can
disrupt the sex life of even the happiest
couple. And in many cases, problems around
sex drive, or libido, are at the root of a
couple's wider difficulties. Call it what
you will, sex drive, libido, or sexual
desire, this is an area where a relationship
may be really tested.
The biggest problem among women these days
in terms of sexual issues at least is low
libido, or lack of sexual desire. Clearly
this can cause problems in both lesbian and
heterosexual relationships, but it's
especially tricky where a man has a
high sex drive and his partner just isn't
interested. (The same is true when the woman
wants sex and the man doesn't.)
Another big issues is mismatched libido -
when one partner wants a certain amount of
sex but the other wants more or less. For
high sexed individuals with a partner who's
content to have sex infrequently, there is
the challenge of what to do with all that
excess sexual energy.
And sex drive or libido can change through a
person's life. The archetypal horny male
teenager has become a bit of a joke, though
having that much sexual energy may be
anything but funny for the boy concerned
especially if he has no socially acceptable
way of expressing it. As a man matures, his
sex drive tends to settle down a bit - this
process matches the fall in his testosterone
levels as he grows older. Unfortunately for
men, a lot of women find their sex drive
picks up after the menopause and
child-bearing years - so again, there is a
potential source of difficulty in a
relationship.
In this section, we deal with all these
problems and offer some solutions - the
first step in many of these is to find a way
of discussing the issue with your partner.
There is some personal writing on the
subject of
sexual arousal and desire, though not
specifically on the issue of low arousal or
desire disorders, on the link you can see
above. This provides a personal view
of the subject of arousal and desire.
