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Rear entry
sex has a very primal and
lustful feel to it. If you are in the
mood for wild sex with passion this is
the sex position to use!
The absence of eye contact can feel
distant or work for you by giving you space to fully enjoy the
sensations of your body.
As both partners support their
own weight, this position allows for much more
freedom of movement, both for men and women.
Women can position their hips as sex
proceeds to get maximum impact in their vagina where they like
it best.
Sex in this position needs much less effort from the
man
as he does not need to hold up his weight and
thrusting can be done by both partners.
For men rear entry sex positions are visually very
exciting. Women can combine sex in this position
with their favorite fantasies but if they're not
into it, it can be boring or even negative for them.
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with plenty of foreplay.
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He says:
Rear entry sex is also known as
"doggy style”.
For men, it's simply one of the most exciting and arousing positions of all.
Why? Because most men find few things as exciting
as watching the act of penetration, and in
this position, the excitement is increased
by the very arousing view he has of his partner's
buttocks. Few men can resist the opportunity of rear entry sex when their partner is willing to share it with them. In fact,
it's a very primal position that satisfies our most basic and lustful sexual urges.
And that can be true for some women, as
well.
She says:
Rear entry can also be very exciting for women.
As with all sex positions there are benefits and drawbacks in
each. Read on to find out more....
He says:
These pictures illustrate just a few of
the many ways in which a couple can make
love in this highly stimulating position.
Most people will find a few favorite
positions and then stick to them for 90% of
the time, but it can be worth experimenting
a little, since just a small shift in position
can alter the sensations you feel quite dramatically.
The classic position will have the woman kneeling
and the man standing behind her, so that she
can raise or lower her hips to permit easy
penetration. Of course, she too can stand
and bend forward from the waist, but this will
only work well if the couple are matched in
height.
She says:
One of the key things in this position is that
the woman needs to tilt or raise her hips to allow
penetration. This means that her back needs to arch down as
shown in the photos below. One of the drawbacks of this position
for the woman is that her arched back then has to absorb some
of the impact created through thrusting. If you have problems
with your lower back this will probably not feel very
comfortable. Even if women do not feel the impact during the
night, they may very well get reminded about their night
of passion by their back in the morning.
He says:
In general, the variations which make
this position so pleasurable will come from
changes in the angle and tightness of the
woman's vagina and the angle at which her
partner enters her. Since this will be
slightly different for each couple, experimentation
is essential so you can discover the way you
enjoy it most. But if you think of her
G-spot as being on the front wall of her
vagina, then you can easily see that the positions
where the man enters at a sharper angle will
tend to stimulate it the most. This can be
very enjoyable for her, but if there is too
much friction, a little artificial lube may
help.
She says:
What makes this position attractive to a woman
is that she can change the angle of her hips very easily and
therefore direct his thrusting wherever she wants it at.
Rear entry also allows for very deep penetration, which doesn't
do too much for most women as they can only feel stimulation
throughout the outer third of their vaginas. One drawback of
deep penetration is that the man's penis may touch the sensitive
area of the cervix deep inside the vagina, as is the case with
the missionary position. This can feel uncomfortable to a woman;
however she can easily tilt her hips slightly to avoid her man's
penis touching a specific area inside of her.
On the other hand, a woman can participate a lot
more with thrusting in this position, especially if she is
kneeling. Her whole body can easily move forwards or
backwards and she could even do all the thrusting herself with
the man being still. This can give a woman a sense of being in
charge and taking part fully in a couple's passion.
He says:
In the following photo, the woman has her
legs together. This will increase the tightness
of her vagina and make the sensations more intense
for both partners. It may also make him
ejaculate more quickly.
She says:
Keeping her legs together can be extremely
exciting for a woman as it allows her to tense her muscles in
her legs and increase the pressure on her man's penis.
This will create more intense sensations for her, as well as
give her a sense of control. Also, if the woman keeps her legs
together it will stop her man penetrating too deeply, which
may feel more comfortable to her.
He says:
As the pictures show, there are many, many
positions for a couple to play with when
they make love this way. Each has its own
special merits: but since men are so visual,
they tend to like the ones where they can
see what's happening as the couple make
love! For a man, the sight of himself
penetrating his partner can be very
arousing! (If a woman enjoys seeing this
too, she will be best placed to see it in
the woman on top position.) It can be very
sensuous for the partners when the woman is
almost sitting in the man's lap as they make
love.
She says:
From a visual perspective this position
doesn't do much for a woman unless she likes the look of their
wallpaper! Obviously she won't be able to see much of her
lover in this position. On the other hand, it can be exciting
not having to maintain eye contact with your lover. In this
position it doesn't matter what faces you pull or how your
breasts and stomach look. The woman can simply relax into the
sensations of her body without having to do anything for him
anymore. Additionally, she's still got use of her hands
in this position, especially when she's lying down, and she can employ them
for herself to best effect. Alternatively, this is a good
position to combine with your favorite sexual fantasy.
He says:
Rear entry sex is great for role play,
when a couple want to explore dominance and
receptiveness during their lovemaking. This
is especially good for men who want to
explore their feeling of dominance. That's
not to say that men are always the dominant
partner in lovemaking, far from it, since
for any couple, the balance of dominance and
submissiveness (or if you prefer, the roles
of active and passive partner, or giver and
accepter of sexual energy), will vary
throughout a session of lovemaking, and from
one session to the next. But this is a good
one for men to feel their sexual power -
and, as we explain below, it's a position in
which women can do so too!
She says:
I think all sexual positions allow for different
aspects of dominance or receptiveness. Rear entry can also make
women feel powerful as they are possibly more able to unleash
pure lust within themselves.
He says:
Unfortunately many women feel rear entry is a bit of an impersonal sex position, fine perhaps if both partners feel very horny, but maybe not so romantic or loving in the normal course of things. Other women say that they feel like a sex object when they take part in rear entry sex, so maybe a lot of women only do it to please their partner.
She says:
Unfortunately, some women may feel
uncomfortable with rear entry sex. This
may partly be due to culture and
upbringing, which still gives women the
message that it is not OK to be overtly
and fully sexual. However, the position
in itself contributes to the sense of
disconnectedness for women as it does
not allow for eye contact. Also, she
does not get to see her partner, which
will make it easier for her attention to
drift away to what she needs to buy at
the supermarket tomorrow. Also,
during classic doggy style with both
partners on their hands and knees body
contact between both partners may only
be through their genitals. This may suit
men, who are very centred on their
penises, but may leave women fairly
bored as the rest of their body does not
get any stimulation. The man
can rectify this by lying on top of his
lover or holding on and caressing his
lover with his hands. Also he could
place his face close to her neck and
play with her neck, back and ears, which
can feel very connecting and intimate
for her.
He says:
Even so, women can enjoy rear entry sex positions because they get the opportunity to fully express their raw sexuality, to feel powerfully feminine and very sexual. In rear entry sex, a woman can really enjoy a sense of
"being taken" from behind. She's also able to
move very powerfully, finding the movements
of her hips and pelvis which most stimulate her
G-spot - thrusting movements which can provide
great pleasure to her partner, as well. As always, some adjustment of the two partner's heights may be needed to make penetration easy. If he's standing and she's kneeling, she can raise or lower her hips until the couple are well-matched.
She says:
Feel free to go for it girls! The goddess
within is never that far from the surface.
He says:
The power and raw sexuality of rear entry sex can be highly enjoyable. But the slightly impersonal nature of it can be off-putting for some people: so, if you want to have a greater sense of connection with your partner, simply place a mirror in front of you both. This is highly erotic, and it also allows you to look into each
other's eyes as you make love.
She says:
I am not sure this would do it for women, as it seems
a rather male centered/visual idea to me. It sounds like the worst of eye
contact, i.e. feeling watched, with the least level of emotional
connection. I would guess most women would rather go with
closing their eyes and having their lover kiss or nibble their
neck.
He says:
One of the great advantages of rear entry sex for a woman is that the penis can hit her sensitive G-spot. In fact, depending on the exact size and shape of
a couple's penis and vagina, a woman may even find there is too much friction. If
this happens to you, try using a little
artificial lubricant (one of the water based
ones are best, like Probe or Astroglide) or change position slightly so that your
partner's penis enters at a slightly different angle.
More unusual positions such as rear entry with both partners lying face down with the man on top of his
partner can be reserved for special occasions when you both feel incredibly aroused and horny, or perhaps when you just want to try something new.
Rear entry sex summarized
He says:
Powerful and exciting for most men, quite
primal in fact.
She says:
Powerful and exciting to women, who may need
some practice to unleash the goddess within.
He says:
Pros
It's a powerful and arousing position for most men. The sight of his penis moving in and out of her
body, with his hands free to explore her
body or touch her clitoris or breasts, can be an intensely exciting experience. Many men
reach orgasm very quickly in this position -
and it can feel very satisfying to so so! Men
seem to be programmed at a deep level to be aroused by
the sight of their partner's buttocks, and
it's probably this primal quality which
gives a sense of deep satisfaction to rear
entry sex. And for a woman who's feeling aroused
and wants to enjoy an experience of lustful
sex, this position can be great, as she can
behave sexily and feel very wanton. That may
be quite liberating for women who have a degree of sexual repression. And a woman may be able to
reach orgasm during lovemaking if her
partner (or she) can stimulate her clitoris
or G-spot for long enough (the first by
hand, the second with his penis as he makes
love).
Cons
It isn't good for a man with a premature ejaculation problem, that's for
sure, as many men get so aroused. And if a man has a large penis, the depth of
his penetration may be uncomfortable for his
partner unless she is really aroused.
She says:
Pros
Allows her plenty of room to move and be
energetic. Allows her to really give herself to her sense of
lust. Doesn't cost that much energy for both partners. She has
got her hands free to stimulate herself and doesn't need to
worry about him losing interest. By closing her legs she can
control the intensity of sensations and the deepness of his
thrusts.
Cons:
Women may need some practice to really let go
into their own bodily sensations. If you are not feeling turned
on it can get boring. If you are feeling insecure you will have
to handle it by yourself as you won't be able to see your lover.
Deep penetration can touch the cervix and the thrusting can
impact on your lower back. Finally, it's harder to slow your
partner down in this position and he might get carried away and
ejaculate
before you want him to.
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